Party Do's and Don'ts

This one's self explanatory. I won't begin with a lengthy anecdote on the joys of going to a party. You know it's fun.

Instead, I'll cut to the chase.

Do's
Do go to parties in college. You only have this experience once in your life, and you don't want to have regrets on missing out when you're old and wrinkly and going to bed at 8:00 pm. I'm not telling you that you have to drink if you go out. I'm just telling you to go out.
Do go to parties with friends/people you trust and know will help out if any dangerous situation were to arise.
Do try to look cute... you never know who you're gonna meet!
Do be extremely careful if you decide to drink. Keep your cup with you at all times!
Do have a plan of action: how you're going to get home/where you're going to sleep if you're not going home.
Do know your limits. I can't stress how important this is in college. It's the people who don't know their limits that end up in dangerous situations/ruin relationships with people/go way overboard or black out.
Do make sure that if you're going to drink, you stay hydrated and eat a meal before going out to prevent getting a hangover/getting dehydrated and sick.
DO EDUCATE YOURSELF ABOUT THE HOOSIER P.A.C.T.
--->http://iusa.indiana.edu/current-initiatives/hoosier-pactlifeline/
Do have fun and be the life of the party!

Gettin ready to go out with some of my girls! #hoedown

Don'ts
Don't go to a party alone. Make sure you will know at least one or two other people there.
Don't EVER get into a ride with a driver who has been drinking.
Don't drink from a cup that has been unattended/ one that you have set down.
Don't be afraid to ask for help in a dangerous situation... whether that be with alcohol, a friend, or someone who is making you feel uncomfortable.
Don't let partying get in the way of schoolwork. Know your priorities, and don't go out if you're gonna be stressed out later about all of the work you should've gotten done over the weekend.
Don't go to a party if you're in a bad mood/know you're not going to have fun. You'll bring others down around you... and noone wants a party pooper! But that being said...
Don't be the girl who's having so much fun that you get sloppy or annoying. Keep yourself in check.
Don't ignore the person at the party who looks too drunk to function/is by herself. Help them out or at least call for someone else to help. Even though he/she may not be your direct responsibility necessarily, when you knowingly leave someone alone who is in danger of blacking out/ getting alcohol poisoning, it becomes your responsibility. If you end up saving a life, it is worth your time.
Don't ignore a sober monitor. In other words, if someone tells you that it's time to go home.. listen to them. For your sake, and for everyone else's.


Like I said, having the opportunity to go to endless parties is something you really only get the chance to do once in your life. Go to parties, but don't overdo it. Have fun, but be smart and know your limits.

Party on, people.

xx, Maddy

Finding Your Niche

Can you believe that Summer is officially over and Fall has finally begun? I think it's about time. I don't know about you, but I'm ready for cute boots, colorful scarves, apple picking, and hot coffee. 

With the arrival of Fall comes the overwhelming realization that you are officially a full-fledged college girl.  You've hopefully started to adjust, found a cool group of friends who you feel comfortable with, and are getting used to the way classes work. But there's something that might be missing from this life you've started to form here that is essential to the college experience: campus involvement. Coming from someone who took a semi-long time to find her place here on campus, I can assure you that joining clubs, organizations, and a sorority have absolutely resulted in IU becoming a home for me. Not only is becoming involved in campus activities a resume-builder, but it helps you to discover what exactly it is that you like and want to do with your life and/or future. On top of that, you meet so many other students who are interested in the same things you are, which creates meaningful friendships and connections.

First off, if you've already declared a major or know what specific school you're applying to or have been accepted to, check out the website that correlates with your school. Most of the time, you will find a list of ways to get more involved with activities specific to your major. If you're anything like how I was as a freshman, and have no idea what your major is going to be or even what school within IU you want to apply to, you can go to http://www.iub.edu/student/activities/index.shtml. Through this website you will find a list of several different organizations, volunteer opportunities, and clubs on campus. Keeping tabs on the IU website is definitely a great way to get informed on different involvement opportunities.

And then there's all of the chalking that I know you've noticed around campus. A successful marketing technique that clubs have been using to reach out to students is through chalking around campus and passing out flyers in high-traffic areas. Although it can kind of get annoying to constantly have other students handing you flyers as you walk through the arboretum, it can't hurt to take one or ask a question. You might just find the club that becomes a huge part of your life here at IU.

If you're wondering how I've gotten involved on campus, which you're probably not, I'll tell you. I'm a member of the Public Relations Student Society of America (PRSSA) and am interning as a campus representative for Fluent representing Macy's. I also worked at the Indiana Daily Student (the school newspaper) for two years as an Advertising Account Executive, and am currently a member of Gamma Phi Beta Sorority. Starting in a few short days, I will also be a contributing writer for HerCampus.com, a website specifically for college girls. Lastly, in a few weeks I will be announcing a brand new Food Recovery Network chapter on our campus that is getting started by yours truly. This organization's goal is to take all of the leftover food from on-campus dining halls and greek houses and donate it to homeless shelters and soup kitchens. If you're at all interested in joining my Food Recovery Network team, you can shoot me an email at msweil@indiana.edu or at brandnewatiu@gmail.com.

My coworkers from the IDS. Aka my second family

Joining these activities, clubs, and organizations on campus has definitely helped shape the person who I am today and has allowed me to meet the people who are now my closest friends. Remember how it felt to have that special bond with the people on your sports teams in high school, your friends from camp, or just those people who understood you? You get to have that all over again in college. I truly believe that sharing interests with people and having that unique connection is the root of all friendships.

Me and a couple of close friends who I met through my sorority 

I seriously recommend-- actually, no, I insist-- that you take a few minutes out of your day to look up something that interests you and send an email to the person in charge. You won't regret it.

Like always, if you have any questions, please shoot me an email! I have enjoyed chatting with the few of you who have reached out :)

xx, Maddy